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Embracing the Change: Talking About Perimenopause and Menopause

Let's talk about perimenopause and menopause

Perimenopause and menopause are natural stages in a woman's life, yet they are often shrouded in silence and misunderstanding. As women approach these phases, it's crucial to foster open conversations and provide support to navigate the changes confidently. This blog post aims to highlight the importance of discussing perimenopause and menopause and explore how exercise, diet, and self-care can contribute to a smoother transition.

Breaking the Silence: The Importance of Conversation

My journey through perimenopause and menopause has been a little daunting due to the lack of open dialogue and education surrounding these topics. WHY AREN'T WE TALKING ABOUT THIS AHEAD OF TIME? Many of us are caught off guard by the physical and emotional changes, leading to feelings of isolation and confusion. By normalizing conversations about these stages, we can:

  1. Educate and Empower: Knowledge is power! Understanding what to expect during perimenopause and menopause helps women prepare mentally and physically for the changes ahead.

  2. Reduce Stigma: Open discussions can dispel myths and reduce the stigma associated with menopause, fostering a supportive community where women feel comfortable sharing their experiences.

  3. Encourage Support Seeking: When women talk about their symptoms and challenges, they are more likely to seek medical advice and support, leading to better health outcomes.

Preparing for the Transition: The Role of Exercise, Diet, and Self-Care

While perimenopause and menopause bring inevitable changes, women can take proactive steps to ease the transition. Exercise, diet, and self-care play pivotal roles in managing symptoms and maintaining overall well-being. However, don't let a doctor or health professional to tell you you aren't "doing enough" if you see added weight gain during this time of life.

1. Exercise:

Regular physical activity is a cornerstone of healthy living and becomes even more crucial during perimenopause and menopause. Exercise helps in:

  • Weight Management: Hormonal changes can lead to weight gain. Exercise helps manage weight and reduces the risk of related health issues.

  • Bone Health: Weight-bearing exercises like walking and strength training improve bone density, reducing the risk of osteoporosis.

  • Mood Enhancement: Physical activity releases endorphins, which combat mood swings, anxiety, and depression commonly experienced during menopause.

  • Cardiovascular Health: Exercise strengthens the heart, reducing the risk of heart disease, which becomes more prevalent after menopause.

However, I've discovered that going "too hard" and doing "what I've always done" isn't working anymore. I have had to learn to back off on hard core cardio, add more body resistance training (as opposed to heavy lifting) and listen to my body better.

2. Diet:

A balanced diet is essential for managing symptoms and supporting overall health during perimenopause and menopause. Key dietary considerations include:

  • Phytoestrogens: Foods like flaxseeds, and legumes contain phytoestrogens, which can help balance hormones and alleviate hot flashes.

  • Calcium and Vitamin D: Adequate intake of these nutrients is vital for bone health. Dairy products, leafy greens, and fortified foods are excellent sources.

  • Healthy Fats: Omega-3 fatty acids, found in fish, chia seeds, and walnuts, can help reduce inflammation and support heart health.

  • Hydration: Drinking plenty of water helps manage hot flashes and prevents dehydration, which can exacerbate symptoms.

3. Self-Care:

Self-care is not just a buzzword; it's a necessity during perimenopause and menopause. Prioritizing self-care can significantly impact a woman's quality of life during these stages. Key practices include:

  • Mindfulness and Stress Reduction: Techniques like meditation, yoga, and deep-breathing exercises can reduce stress, improve mood, and enhance overall well-being.

  • Sleep Hygiene: Establishing a regular sleep routine and creating a comfortable sleep environment can alleviate sleep disturbances common during menopause.

  • Finding a Doctor that gets it: One of the most frustrating things I've found is that many doctors truly don't understand perimenopause. Search out a doctor or naturopath that "gets it".

  • Social Support: Connecting with friends, family, or support groups provides emotional support and reduces feelings of isolation.


Perimenopause and menopause are significant life transitions that deserve attention and open dialogue. By discussing these stages openly, women can better understand and prepare for the changes, reducing fear and anxiety. Incorporating regular exercise, a balanced diet, and self-care practices can profoundly impact the ease of this transition, promoting a healthier and more fulfilling life. Let's break the silence and empower each other to embrace this new chapter with confidence and grace!

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